Love’s Loyalty
I John 2:1-11
Dictionary.com defines loyalty as: “the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations, faithful adherence to a sovereign, government, leader, cause, etc. an example or instance of faithfulness, adherence, or the like.”
The main word in loyalty is: faithfulness, being faithful to whatever you serve.
As we continue in our study of First John, emphasizing the them of love- crazy love- love that goes against what our world says is love, it’s interesting to see from scripture that love is loyal, love is faithful. Any guesses on who love is faithful to? Without adoubt, love is faithful to God. Our theme verse is:
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Matt. 22:37
Love is loyal to God. So what does that look like? 1 John 2:1-2 reads:
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.
Our first point is this: Love abides with Christ. What does abide mean? To remain, to continue. Love remains with Christ- it doesn’t shift around from Jesus to something else and maybe back again. No, love remains with Christ. Love builds that relationship with Christ, if we are to be people of love, then we will prioritize our relationship with Jesus.
So how do we do that? Well, first we reject sin. Love rejects sin. Verse 1 reads:
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.
Part of John’s reason for writing this letter was to help his audience with sin. Love has nothing to do with sin. Why? Because sin is selfish. Let’s face it, sin is after only what sin wants. When Eve was tempted in the garden, the serpent said: “You will be like God!” He tempted her with a desire to be like God and instead of accepting the abundant fruit of the garden that God had graciously given, man chose to be selfish. I want what I want and I want it now! That’s selfish, that’s sin.
So love rejects sin. But what happens when we do sin? We dealt with this last week. There’s good news: Love seeks forgiveness.
But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.
If we sin, if we choose to be selfish, God is waiting to grant forgiveness. He wants to forgive! The verse says Jesus is our advocate- what’s an advocate? “a person who pleads for or in behalf of another; intercessor.” I talked about this in our “Jesus Who?” Series. He is our advocate. When we sin and ask for forgiveness, Jesus takes our issue to the Father and we’re granted forgiveness. That’s a promise, remember last week? Forgiveness of sin is a promise, you can bank on it- God will forgive if you are truly repentant.
So love abides with Christ. But how else is love loyal? Love keeps God’s commandments. Verses 3-11 read:
And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says "I know him" but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked. Beloved, I am writing you no new commandment, but an old commandment that you had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word that you have heard. At the same time, it is a new commandment that I am writing to you, which is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother is still in darkness. Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.
Love keeps God’s commandments. Jesus said if you love Me you’ll what? Keep My commandments. John 14:15.
Where do we find His commandments? In His Word, is He only talking about the Ten Commandments? No, we follow all of His Word. Now there are some dietary and sacrificial rules of the Israelites in the Old Testament that we don’t follow anymore because when Jesus came He abolished the need for those things, but we still follow the moral law that’s in the Old Testament and we follow His teachings in the New Testament. Which by the way, those things compliment one another, they don’t conflict. The Bible is harmonious, meaning it fits together, it doesn’t contradict itself. We follow all of the Bible.
And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says "I know him" but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him,
The person who says: “Yeah, I’m a Christian.” But doesn’t follow the Word is a liar. And believe me they are out there. They may think they’re Christians but if they don’t have a relationship with Christ, which includes following His Word, then they aren’t. And that’s sad, there are people out there who think they are going to Heaven and they are not because they don’t know Christ.
So we keep His commandments by following His Word and secondly, by walking like Christ, Love walks like Christ. Read verses 5-6.
but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.
Love walks like Christ. We walk like He walked. Christ walked or lived His life how? Perfectly! He never sinned, and the opposite of that He always did what was right! He was gentle, kind, compassionate, intolerant of sin. And He expects us, His followers to walk the same way. How do I live rightly? Look at Christ, read His example. Pattern your life after Jesus.
So love keeps God’s commandments by obeying His Word and Walking like Christ, lastly Love does not hate. That seems obvious doesn’t it?
Love does not hate. Read verses 7-11.
Beloved, I am writing you no new commandment, but an old commandment that you had from the beginning. The old commandment is the word that you have heard. At the same time, it is a new commandment that I am writing to you, which is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother is still in darkness. Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.
John kinda does a play on words here, he’s saying this is not a new commandment because the Old Testament teaches us to love, but yet it is a new commandment because Jesus taught us to love and He kinda elevated it when He was here and specifically charged the church to love. So the idea’s always been around, but Jesus refreshed it so to speak. It’s kinda like a computer. The idea for the computer has been around for decades! But there’s always new versions and new ways of packaging the computer, right now the Ipad 3 is out right? Just another, refreshing way of packaging on old concept. That’s kinda what John is saying there.
But consider verse 9
Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother is still in darkness.
Whoever hates his brother lives still in darkness. What does that mean? They are NOT saved. If there is hate in your heart, check yourself ask yourself if you are truly saved. As I’ve said before, we’ll all stumble in this area from time to time, but if you are a hateful person, then there’s no love and that’s dangerous!
Whoever hates his brother is in darkness and doesn’t know where he is going. Where is he going? If he doesn’t turn and repent, he’s headed for hell. Think about that thought. Think about being judged by God and going to hell and you didn’t even know it! Until it was too late.
Love does not hate- hate should never be seen in the life of one of God’s children. Never. There is no room, no excuse for it. Remember our definition of love? To provide and protect. So what would be our definition of hate? To not provide to not protect. A lot of times we think of hate as a strong emotion and it can be. But in action hate does not provide and protect. If I said, “I love my wife” and not once ever provided for her needs or protected her then are my actions loving her? No.
These things I’ve just shared describe how love is loyal. We serve a living and powerful God who loves us and wants us to love. Let’s be loyal to Him!